Flaws?

I just don't get it. I keep meeting these "great" guys, but they are flawed.  Now, I'm not looking for perfection, but these are big flaws . . . like rips in their moral fabric.  They lie, they cheat, they are only looking for sex, they are possessive (like scary possessive), they present themselves one way and then their true character comes out.  I'm so over this.

And believe me, I'm not trying to jump into any relationships, but I would like to take what they say at face value.  Unfortunately, I can't. If I did, I'd be hurt every time.  I don't put my heart into any of these encounters, thank goodness.  But, it bothers me because I want to see the best in everyone and because I am totally honest and straight forward with them.  They say they are, but the truth always comes out.

I'm not ready to give up . . . I know the right one is out there.  My question is how many frogs to I have to kiss to find my prince?

SMDH and moving on.

Until next time, much peace and love.

Confusing But Enjoying

This whole dating scene is confusing, but I'm enjoying it.

The guy I wrote about last time is still somewhat in the picture, but he doesn't contact me often and makes a point of calling me friend.  Now that's all fine and dandy--and he said friends first, but he's not really making a move to move beyond that.  And that's ok.

There are a couple of others, one I've been out with a couple of times and he's really sweet, and another that we don't ever seem to be able to schedule.  That should be a sign.

Then there is this new one.  DAMN!  He is fantastic and scares the crap out of me because we are clicking quick.  I probably shouldn't even write all of this, but I'm putting it out there.  I like him already.  So--here goes nothing. 

Until next time, much peace and love.